Find the reflection that fits your situation.
Each assessment takes a few minutes and gives you a private summary right away. There's no gate on the value here — you'll see your result immediately, and can choose to receive a fuller breakdown by email.
Sacred Flame Readiness Assessment
A fit-and-readiness reflection for the Sacred Flame approach to transforming unwanted sexual patterns.
Boundary Clarity Assessment
Identify where your boundaries may be weak, inconsistent, punitive, or unclear — and where clearer limits may help most.
Caregiver / Partner Burnout Assessment
Check in on your own exhaustion, preoccupation, resentment, sleep, identity, self-care, emotional load, and support balance.
Communication Under Stress Assessment
See how your communication holds up under stress across avoidance, escalation, interrogation, defensiveness, shutdown, and constructive dialogue.
Family Support Readiness Assessment
For family members: gauge how ready and resourced you are to support a loved one without monitoring, rescuing, or losing yourself.
Partner Impact Assessment
For spouses and partners: reflect on how a loved one's sexual behavior has affected trust, safety, communication, intimacy, and more.
Enabling vs. Supporting Assessment
Distinguish compassionate support from patterns that may unintentionally shield a loved one from responsibility or consequences.
Family System Impact Assessment
Reflect on how a loved one's behavior ripples through parenting, finances, routines, emotional climate, values, roles, trust, and connection.
Reconciliation Readiness Assessment
Distinguish genuine readiness for reconciliation from an understandable wish for relief, peace, or a quick return to normal.
TENET Transformation Readiness Assessment
A faith-informed readiness and consultation-preparation reflection across awareness, readiness, identity, support, and faith & values.
Trust Repair Assessment
Reflect on whether the behaviors trust repair actually requires — honesty, accountability, reliability, responsiveness, and repair — appear to be in place.
Recovery Environment Assessment
Evaluate how much your home and relationship environment supports recovery — structure, privacy, accountability, routines, technology, connection, triggers, and culture.
This is a supportive, educational self-reflection tool — not a diagnosis, a validated psychological test, or medical advice. It may help you notice patterns and next steps, and is meant to complement appropriate professional care.