For Loved Ones • 6 min

Boundary Clarity Assessment

This reflection looks at eight dimensions of healthy boundaries. Higher scores reflect healthier functioning. A low score doesn't mean you're failing — it points to where clearer, calmer, or firmer boundaries may help.

32 questions, rated 1–5

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A quick safety check

Please tick any that apply. Your safety matters more than any assessment.

I currently feel physically unsafe, threatened, coerced, or intimidated in this relationship.I am concerned that a child, minor, or person unable to freely consent may be at risk.There are threats of self-harm, harm to others, or an acute mental-health crisis.I am being pressured to participate in sexual activity, monitoring, disclosure, or contact I do not freely consent to.

This is a supportive, educational self-reflection tool — not a diagnosis, a validated psychological test, or medical advice. It may help you notice patterns and next steps, and is meant to complement appropriate professional care.

Boundary Clarity Assessment

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