For Loved Ones • 7 min

Reconciliation Readiness Assessment

Reconciliation requires more than wanting the relationship to survive — it requires honesty, accountability, emotional safety, patience, and repeated repair. Higher scores mean stronger readiness. Complete this separately from your partner if possible.

40 questions, rated 1–5

Your summary appears instantly and privately

Full breakdown by email is optional

A quick safety check

Please tick any that apply. Your safety matters more than any assessment.

Someone is currently afraid of physical harm, threats, coercion, retaliation, stalking, or forced sexual activity.Sexual behavior has involved a minor or anyone who could not legally or freely consent.There are current threats of self-harm, harm to others, or another acute mental-health crisis.There is ongoing deception, illegal activity, or active behavior that makes basic relationship safety impossible to evaluate.A qualified professional has recommended specialized mental-health, addiction, medical, legal, or domestic-violence support.

This is a supportive, educational self-reflection tool — not a diagnosis, a validated psychological test, or medical advice. It may help you notice patterns and next steps, and is meant to complement appropriate professional care.

Reconciliation Readiness Assessment

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